Change. It is a loaded concept and comes with many complex emotions and understandings that most of us would rather avoid than embrace. For example, if you admit that there is a need for change, isn’t that admitting that you could be better...and if you could be better, doesn’t that mean you aren’t enough? And quite frankly not being enough brings up a whole lot of other thoughts and emotions that are a bit unpleasant. So better to just stay the same and not toy with changes.